Ways To Attract A Good Man Into Your Life
Do you know that there are some girls that keep attracting the wrong type of guys over and over again? They don’t consciously know when they do it; they only realize it when they get a broken heart. She finds herself with mascara-stained tears running down her face after trusting yet another asshole with her heart.
So if you constantly find yourself claiming that your single status is due to the lack of good men around, it is time to reevaluate why you constantly find yourself dating the wrong person.
Of course it is easier to lay blame on the opposite sex for their inability to commit, but it is often your own behavior that results in you dating one bad boy after another.
The tragedy is if you don’t learn what truly attracts a man, you’ll probably have to settle for a lower quality guy, and end up a divorce statistic, even if you are able to get him to marriage.
Aristotle said, “Quality is not an act, it is a habit.” How you treat yourself is your announcement to the world of how much you are worth. How are you teaching the world to treat you?
So for you to attract the right man into your life, do the following:
Live your life fully guided by your heart and values
A man finds a woman irresistible if she lives her life on her own terms and brings happiness to herself with or without a man in her life. She doesn’t depend on her love life to live her own life or to be happy.
Where many ladies make the mistake is when they create a life solely around their desire to keep a man, they end up being controlling and that runs a good man off. An irresistible woman lives a life that he wants to be a part of. One of the most important aspects to attracting a high-quality man and keeping him is creating a life you love living.
Live an open life
Something most women do not understand is that men absolutely crave to be with a woman who is open to them. What this signals to men is that you’re not interested in them or that you have someone else or hiding one dark secret.
Dress the way you want to be addressed
I’m sure you are already familiar with this saying but I will still insist on it if you want to attract a good man into your life. Don’t just dress to follow the trend, ask yourself if the kind of man you wish to spend your life with will want to see you dressed that way. So make sure you get dressed in something you feel good in. Find an outfit that you love to wear. This is not about looking hot; it’s about feeling great in it.
Invest in yourself
It is obvious that the woman that keeps attracting the wrong men into her life is because she never invested in growing herself as a woman.
A man of quality and intrigue can sense a woman who is faking it or not advancing. He will never trade his loaf of bread for her crumbs. He wants a partner who is on his level, and you must invest in yourself as he has done himself too. You must treat yourself as someone worthy of your desires, dreams and hopes. Only then will you attract a man who wants to nurture them.