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How To Protect Your Husband and Marriage From ‘Delilah’s’ of This World

Vanessa by Vanessa
May 18, 2020
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As long as time remains, no man is immune to extra-marital affairs. Even the most devout man in the Bible that was called the ‘man after God’s heart’, King David, still committed adultery.

No matter how strong a man thinks he is there’s always this ‘Deliliah’ that will have his ‘mumu’ button. He simply can’t resist the urge to sleep with her if the occasion presents itself. He will fall into temptation time and again if the woman is left in a closed room with him.

We have seen and heard of great men; the likes of John Terry (former England skipper), Tiger Wood (Former world number one golfer), Bill Clinton (former president of the United States of America) to mention a few, who have had their careers badly affected as a result of alleged illicit affairs.

We have also heard of even great men of God, Imams and leaders of organization brought down by a young lady with great legs and sexy body. So ladies, don’t ever make the mistake of thinking that your husband is one super hero that is immune to the wiles of these daughters of Jezebel whose sole purpose is to go after married men to ruin their marriage and destiny.

Affairs, flirting, infidelity, adultery, cheating or whatever name you call it is a marriage killer that you must avoid before it ruins your marriage.

Though men and women are involved in it, studies have shown that married men are more involved in it than their wives because of the high rate of desperate single ladies around.

The reason behind this is that men are naturally wired to be more sexually active than women. They are mostly moved by what they see and these ladies are eager to share their nude pictures and videos willingly, fueling the desires of men which are basically physical.

That doesn’t mean we should accept men cheating on their wives anyway but the truth has to be told.

So what should a woman do to at least help her husband to some extent from falling prey to these desperate single ladies and protect her marriage from being ruined by adultery?

Here are tips a woman can use to bulletproof her marriage from being ruined by her husband’s infidelity:

Give him what He Likes: While courting, he would have told you what he likes and without being told, a wife should know what her husband likes. It is your duty to please him when it is within your power to do so.

Most husbands love sex a lot: Decide to go out of your way to really please your husband sexually. Don’t be shy to ask him what satisfies him sexually and learn how to do it. Keep his sexual appetite satiated at all times and he will not have the energy to even look at another woman.

Follow your intuition and be observant: If God wired men to be sexual, he also wired women to be intuitive to know when their husband has stopped paying attention to them in a sexual way or when their interests has started shifting to another woman. Don’t be too careless not to be observant and nip it in the bud before it becomes another affair. Talk to your husband about it, get him to be honest with you about what he feels. Don’t confront him angrily or else you will spoil the whole efforts of getting him to own up to his guilt.

If you know the lady, confront her but in a civilized manner. If possible, befriend her and that way you keep her closer and be able to watch her moves. Often times, when this happens, the lady cools off and avoids contact with your husband and with time, his own interest will wane and turns his attention back to you.

Keep flirting with your husband just like courting: Another way to keep the flame burning in a marriage is to continue courting your spouse. Don’t stop flirting and enticing your husband just because you are now married. That’s the mistake most women do. Once they’re married, they let go of all the sexy things they were doing to entice the man when they were courting. If you stop, one sleek lady is waiting for him outside to give him what you have stopped bringing to the marriage.

Forgive easily

Often marriages begin to fall apart when one person holds a grudge.  If you have wronged your partner in some way, apologize sincerely and ask for forgiveness. Truly listen to what your partner has to say and why he is upset and do your best to keep the peace in your home intact.

Don’t be a nagging woman:

Men run away from a woman who complains too much and nags about every little thing. You single handedly stifle the peace in your home and still expect the man to stay at home with you to bear it? Most men simply take the easy escape route and that is to fall in the hands of another woman. Don’t be the one to chase your husband into the hands of another woman by your nagging.

Build Intimacy

If you have decided that you want to have more sex, consider putting sex on your schedule. Make a conscious effort to build intimacy in your marriage that will create a bond between you and your husband that cannot be penetrated easily by the Delilah’s of this world.

Beyond sex, it’s also important to explore other ways to build closeness. Physical intimacy doesn’t only involve sex. Make an effort to renew your love and create that spark you initially had when you first started dating.

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