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5 Signs That Show You’re In A Loveless Marriage

Vanessa by Vanessa
April 28, 2021
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The truth is that there is no perfect marriage. The earlier this sinks into your head, the better for you. Every relationship on earth has its highs and lows, good days and bad days.  That doesn’t mean that your marriage is over, No. what it means is that when you notice it at its beginning stage, you should take caution and mend the fence before it’s too late.

But when a relationship goes cold, it is a big indicator that you’re in a loveless marriage. Saving such a loveless marriage can be extremely difficult, especially when your marriage relationship has been in trouble for a very long time and none of you did anything to salvage the situation.

If you’re trying to figure out whether you should try to fix your marriage or not, one of the first questions you need to ask yourself is: Do I want to save this marriage or do I want to leave it?

Here are eight signs you’re in a loveless marriage:

 

You stop communicating with each other

Communication is very important in every marriage. One of the biggest signs of a loveless marriage is when you and your spouse stop communicating your concerns and worries with one another. If your relationship has gone cold, it’s important to confront the underlying issues that brought the relationship to the place it’s in today. If there is something that’s interfering in your marriage, take out time and have a talk with your partner. Voice your concerns and listen to your partners concerns as well. Open communication is a huge step towards bringing your relationship out of the troubled pit it is in right now.

You withhold affection from each other

Once you withhold giving affection from your spouse, it can cause irreparable damage in that relationship. Whether affection means being really touchy-feely or showing care, or helping each other through obstacles, it all helps to create a strong bond between couples.  Being absent and unaffectionate hurts the person you’re with and can really hurt your relationship. If either of you is doing this to the other, it’s important that you get to the heart of the issue. You and the person you’re with should always feel loved, valued and appreciated.

 

Refusing to let go of the past

Many marriages stay loveless because one or more parties in the relationship refuse to let go of the past but still holding on to the hurt. Hanging on to old grievances kills the bond in a relationship. Often, we will blame our partner for our pain rather than taking responsibility for whatever choices we made that resulted in our unhappiness. But if you continue to hold on to the past pain, it will drain you of energy, take over your thoughts and prevent you from moving forward. Letting go of the past grievances is vital in moving forward in your relationship and in life. This often begins with forgiveness. Offering forgiveness can help you let go of past hurts. When you forgive someone, you release yourself from the pain the person has caused you.

 

Your relationship lacks intimacy

A lot of people automatically think issues occur in the marriage when you’re no longer being physically intimate with each other but it can be more than the absence of s3x. For instance, not wanting to be close to your partner or show signs of affection are a big sign that you’re in a loveless marriage. If physical affection has declined in your relationship, it’s unrealistic to think you can automatically jump back to the way things were. However, you can bring back intimacy in your marriage. A lack of intimacy in a relationship, whether physical or emotional, is not only frustrating but also very unhealthy for that marriage. This requires you to let down your walls and let your partner into your life again. It is a gradual process which often starts by reestablishing trust. The more you build trust with each other again, the stronger the relationship will be.

 

Your marriage is one of convenience

Staying in a marriage only because it’s convenient is a major sign that love is missing. Convenience brings problems when the relationship has no sparks whatsoever.  You no longer feel anything for one another. At this point, you don’t think of love anymore, just the benefits especially if one of the spouses is wealthy. Whether it’s because you don’t want to disappoint your family with a breakup or kids are involved, staying together just because you feel you should only leads to bitter resentment and an excessive amount of fights and heartbreak.

 

If your marriage is worth fixing, it’s important that you deal with these things with all that you have inside you and save your marriage NOW!

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Vanessa

I'm a journalist and relationship columnist. Nigeria Media Merit (NMMA) 1st Runner Up Award Recipient. I'm passionate about arts, entertainment,marriage, religion and politics. I love giving back to society.

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