I Had 15 Abortions In My Desperate Need To Get Married- Lara Kudayisi (VIDEO)
Popular Nigerian Relationship Coach, Lara Kudayisi has revealed that she had aborted 15 different times in her desperate bid to get married and the 14th of those abortions was for a man who didn’t want a pregnant bride because he was preparing to become a pastor, Vondigest reports.
The therapist made the revelation during an exclusive interview on the show of popular media entrepreneur and TV host, Chude Jideonwo.
Lara who has now written a book about her past experiences said everything happened because she was naive and had a desperate goal to get married, so every other thing didn’t matter as long as she achieved her goal.
According to her, when her mother got to know about the story she didn’t believe her at first.
“My mum called me the first time she heard about it. That was some years ago. She told me it’s a lie that I am just saying it so that people would come.” Lara stated.
According to her, it happened to her because she placed marriage as her only priority and that was why she always agreed to whatever the guy said.
“Secondly because I had the goal to get married. So everything didn’t matter apart from getting married. So even though I got pregnant three times for the same guy and he keeps saying I don’t want to use protection, I would still do it with him. If you remember there is a chapter in the book where I said wanted to get married to prove daddy wrong. That was because I had gotten pregnant and had a child out of wedlock before. So I was desperate to get married and having another child out of wedlock was out of the question.
“So I launched ‘operation get married’. That was how all the abortions happened.
“I would say God is just graceful and mercyful to me because after 15 abortions I still conceived and had another child”. She said.
Lara, who is a relationship guru, uses her life experience to guide other ladies not to be desperate for marriage or do unimaginable things because they want to get married.
Lara Kudayisi is now a match-making and relationship-coach who has carved a niche for herself in the sector
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